About "Femme Domme with a Purpose"

Bodybuilder by day, domme and dancer by night – Ms. Defiance, IFBB Fitness Pro, is your devilish, sweet hearted domme next door. Some may call her the red-headed Marilyn Monroe, as her mesmerizing old school pin-up look represents the adrenalized, entertainer inside her. With confidence and authority, Defoance has been known to passionately rule the weight room as her stage and the very first of her many Submissives.  

Defiance may be small in size, but never mistaken this for what she’s capable of in strength. Residing in the heart of NYC, with frequent travel to Las Vegas, she holds over 20 awards and placements in the NPC/IFBB. A classically trained dancer, along with being a current day pole performer, and Lyra hoop aerialist, Defiance has performed and been featured in various nightclubs and adult conventions throughout the country including New York, Chicago, Miami, Atlantic City, Philadelphia, Washington D.C., and Las Vegas.   

Defiance is also a published fitness model found in multiple prints including Planet Muscle, Philly Fit, Atlantic City County Magazine, and Scott Church’s publicized books and annual art gallery show. Defiance was awarded in 2014 as Ronnie Mund's hot chick of the week on the Howard Stern Show being the first woman to ever be featured two weeks in a row.   

Not only is she sexy, but smart. Defiance strongly holds a BFA in dance from Temple University, graduating with honors. Simultaneously, Defiance studied Pilates and other various forms of group fitness while teaching dance classes on the side, a job she has ongoing pursued since the mere age of 14 years old. Continuing her education when moving to New York City in 2014 she furthered her studies in aerial arts with pole, lyra hoop, and Liquid Motion® - a methodology she has also achieved both her certification and license in. Defiance holds certifications in personal training and nutrition through both the International Sports Sciences Association (ISSA) and the National Academy of Sports Medicine (NASM).    

Personal Note by Ms. Defiance...

My goal is to help you address your fetish, fantasy, or feelings that may have been  searching for an outlet you haven't been able to find. If you are not expressing it, you are storing it, which in turn can lead to suppressed emotions and unhealthy habits. Not only am I a provider and facilitator but I am also here to be your accountability partner and guide. My goal is to help you feel validated, understood, and empowered by assisting you on how to OWN YOUR EMOTIONS, whether they may be good, bad, or indifferent. By doing so we learn how to love ourselves just a little bit more and thus can lead to healthier relationships in both our personal and professional lives.

Domination therapy appeals to gentlemen (and even some women) of all ages for a wide range of reasons. Among them:

It can help satisfy your natural longing for human touch if:

• You have suppressed emotions and do not know how to release or express them. 
• Your partner does not understand your fetish.
• You know your fetish but do know how to communicate it. 
• You have been pouring untold hours and energy into your career or family at the expense of your own well-being.
• You are in a relationship where your needs are being neglected, but you don't want to astray.
• You recently went through a breakup, miss sensual touch, but are not yet ready to date.
• Lost your feeling of emotion and/or chemistry between yy Mourself and a partner and do not know how to get it back.
• Experienced touch deprivation during the pandemic.

Sensual therapeutic touch can also:

• Help revitalize low libidos, reawaken dormant intimate feelings and/or suppressed emotions such as anger, resentment, hate or even depression.
• Help you reawaken your body's potential for reaching peak pleasure that may have escaped you. 
• Help you release built-up tension with deeper, more intense, frequent waves of pleasure and indulgence in a healthy mannerism.
• Help  you better understand your body's hot and cold buttons in conjunction with your fetish so you can communicate them to your partner.
• Help you overcome negative associations that were once emulated from bad intimate experiences. 
• Help you reclaim your intimate power and thus gaining self-confidence. 

Additionally, it can:

• Be an item to check off your bucket list if you are an adventurer.
• An outlet for you to "get your kink on" in a judgement-free zone.
• Distribute uncomplicated emotional fulfillment if you are going through a dark time and you need an      accountability partner.
• Provide a safe, blissful "me-time" indulgence and escape after a long stressful day.