It's not about barking orders. It's about setting a standard

It is imperative you are to be up front with me by identifying first for yourself as to what you like, what you want, what you don’t want, what you may be looking to explore, how you have been feeling recently and how you feel that day (when the day arrives). Without this I cannot create the right type of environment for us, almost as if you expect me to build a puzzle without all the pieces. If I am in control, I need to know what I am controlling.

I need to know that if you say you will do something you will do it. If for whatever reason an expectation cannot be met, you may choose to negotiate, but never argue. This is for your benefits. I need to know you are willing to work. 

Yes, I am a Domme, but understand to be your leader I require a great deal of space, creativity time, and recovery as this is not my only line of work. 

If you are under the weather, I cannot see you in person until you are well. Our health (being both yours and mine) is our foundation and should never risk being hindered. Prior to meeting please be sure you have showered and arrive seemingly presentable. Body odor (unless there is a medical issue that cannot be controlled) is completely unacceptable and you will be sent away. High standards of cleanliness and hygiene are particularly important to me.

I respect all my Submissives. I find it highly respectable in knowing what you want and doing the work to get it. As a Domme I genuinely do care for my Submissives by offering guidance and tangible steps towards personal situations that may be causing stress or burdens to your every-day life so we can work towards bettering yourself. However, in doing this I need you to respect me in equality.

All communication between us, whether online or in-person, is held in strict confidence. The only exception is when there is a need to report a dangerous or potentially harmful or life-threatening behavior that requires the need for a professional that supports clinically significant or mental illnesses.