Frequently Asked Questions

My goal is to understand both your fantasy and your emotions to the best of my ability and, so you can express your fetish and feelings in a healthy mannerism. Not all fetishes and fantasies are accepted as I never take on a role I cannot fulfill. However, if for whatever reason I decline your request, I may not always disclose my reasoning. Simply put, no means no.

The session begins with a several minutes of observing my sub. Reading his or her energy through visualization and gentle therapeutic touch, getting a sense of how they are feeling that day, and creating an environment around us that energetically suites their fantasy. All sessions begin at a slow pace to spiritually connect. High intensity sessions are never to be rushed into, but rather have a buildup in vitality.    

You're expected to be 21 or older. Other than that, nothing. Just turn off your mind, sit, stand, or lay back, and open yourself up to a liberating, transformative experience. The hour is all about you. 

Yes. Protecting your privacy is first and foremost above all crucial in my practice. I am committed to the highest levels of confidentiality, discretion, and trust. Just as in Vegas, whatever happens here, stays here. All communication between us, whether online or in-person, is held in strict confidence, unless a clinical health professional is needed.  

Safety is again one of my top priorities both mine and yours. That's why I suggest we exchange a few emails and speak briefly by phone prior to confirming appointments. Plus, both my locations are in exclusive studios of buildings that are in safe and vibrant parts of Manhattan.

I do not keep numbers of how many guests I have seen, but I have been providing sensual domination for almost 10 years. Over the course of those 10 years the service has evolutionized and through that I have witnessed a steady line of new and repeated guests.

To Protect You: 

• I thoroughly wash my hands before, after, and if necessary, during each session.
• I will provide you with a freshly laundered bath towel and washcloth if needed. 
• I clean and disinfect those surfaces around us both both before and after. I've been vaccinated, boostered and have tested negative for Covid-19 multiple times.   

To Protect Me: 

• You must affirm you have not been in contact with Covid-19-positive individuals and have not been in Covid "hotspots" in the U.S. or elsewhere within 14 days of your appointment. 
• You must wash your hands prior to the start of session. 
• You must cancel and reschedule your session if you have the sniffles, a cough, a cold, a fever, or generally feel unwell.  

I am mainly self-taught with a longtime passion for this type of giving, in addition to over 10 years of experience servicing numerous subs.   A graduate of Temple University with a BFA in dance, I specialized in performance and choreography within my years of school. Much of our education was based around human touch as this type of interaction was utilized greatly while studying both improv and other choreographic techniques to create movement. It wasn’t the type of 5, 6, 7, 8 choreography you see on “So You Think You Can Dance” or even Broadway. Developing choreography was a matter of exploring ours and others’ emotions. Much of our classes went very deep, some days even to the point of tears. We learned to develop work by better understanding and being open and honest within ourselves. These same methods are what I try and convey to those that come and see me.   

Aside from this, I am also a certified Reiki practitioner of both levels 1 and 2. Reiki is another form of alternative medicine, a Japanese form of energy healing. Reiki practitioners use a technique called palm healing or hands-on healing through which is a "universal energy" said to be transferred through the palms of the practitioner to the client to encourage emotional or physical healing. The energy of Reiki does naturally carry through me all the time, therefore you may feel a warm, gentle tingly sensation when I am around you or when I am touching you. Understand this is normal and nothing to be feared. Reiki is meant to be positive healing and will only feel “good” if you are open to it. Also, know the only way for you to feel the Reiki energy is if you are accepting of it. Otherwise, it will not transfer and if it doesn’t that is okay. We can work on it until it does. For more on Reiki healing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reiki  

For my athletic background please free to visit my competition track record along with my extensive list of certifications in the fitness industry at the bottom of the site.  

 First and foremost, you will find I am very straight forward and direct when initially exchanging communication with me, but that is also part of my role as a domme. As you get to know me you will understand I am warm and welcoming with a calming non-judgmental demeanor. Yes, I may appear stern, but understand I am here to help you. I have seen and heard it all, and like I always say let’s allow ourselves to redirect our emotions. If you ARE intimidated let’s be honest with ourselves and work with it during our time. I would rather you be up front and tell me you are uncomfortable rather than suppressing it. Suppression will only prevent us from reaching our goal. 

As your domme, I consider myself to be both a guide, facilitator, and accountability partner. It is a privilege to provide this service and have deep admiration and respect for any man or woman who empowers themselves to take ownership of his or her emotions. 

While I feel it's my role to unlock the mysteries of your mind and soul within the hour, you'll receive the most fulfillment out of your session by letting me know what's working for you and what isn’t. Verbiage isn’t always necessary either as I'm very good at reading body language or energies. Subtle signals like dimming of one’s eyes, wiggles, winces, or moans are perfectly fine ways to convey your approval or denial of certain methods of touch, or areas you'd like special attention addressed to. 

Before meeting subs, I like to get a sense of who they are on both a personal and physical level to provide a more tailored service. I request some basic information upfront to also ensure that the person who shows up is indeed the person who contacted me. 

I perform in leather bikinis. Some guests prefer lingerie as this may be requested. 

A standard session is 60 minutes. Sessions can be intense, both physically and emotionally. Most subs generally find that they've had enough power after an hour. If you'd like a longer or shorter session, we can discuss.

Whether or not a connection is present and has potential will determine how and if the relationship will continue. 

It depends, but typically within 24-48 hours. Other times it may take a few days, or even a week at most.